I am realistic, I met up with friends during the Spoons brexit shenanigans and never had issue with it. I am not going to pretend that I am unlikely to change when its safe to enter pubs. I get internet posturing, if you don’t drink in a spoons its very easy to say I will never use them again. I on the other hand I don’t seek them out but use them. If alternatives are around I will use them, if friends say lets meet in Spoons, then we meet in Spoons. I am comfortable with it.