I'm currently in Ireland, in a town of 1,300 people and it is probably easier to be carless here than in Stafford. I haven't driven the car 'as transport' since mid-November, just three little circular trips to keep it loosened up. The town has pretty much everything I need within a mile of the house and virtually anything, big or small, will be dropped off, if necessary. I used to shop, out of habit, at a Lidl about 12 miles away, but haven't been outside the current 5km limit since the last run there in November.
We have a giant builder's merchant/hardware shop, two supermarkets, a Wilko's-type place, four take-aways, health centre, two bank branches, clothes shop and lots of other 'small' things. There's a three-times-a-day bus service to the two nearest 'big' towns and we're (luckily, I'll admit) four miles from a station on the main Dublin-Cork railway, where about half the trains will stop.
Also, walking and cycling are a lot less unpleasant than they are in Stafford.
I used to come here on the train, but gave that up around 2008, when the trip to/from Holyhead became just too difficult. The car did have 'use' on the subsequent trips, but little of it was truly necessary, more because it was available.
There were monthly trips to a hospital appointment fifty miles away, but the trips when I wasn't here were easily accomplished by just making a phone call to arrange a volunteer driver on the day.
On the subject of the noiselessness of electric cars, I'm hoping that you will be able to install your own preferred sound files.
I want this.