This is what i want at mine
And 'The Sunlight on the Garden' by Louis MacNeice, read by someone who knows how to read properly (a big ask i know), somewhere down the line.
The latter will depend upon whether i bury my mother or she buries me - if the former then i will read it, properly, for her - if it's already been said, then it'll have to be cummings for my goings.