Lunar Scorpion
Anarchy in the UK
My parents are on speaking terms and sorted out stuff themselves (they ignored the CSA because they are sh*te). It is much better to be able to deal with things calmly between yourselves as you are still both the parents and must continue to work as a team for the sake of the children.shoes said:I agree tek. Dize, the best thing to do now is to make sure your children are alright, and assuming you are going to split from you partner then you need to make it as painless as possible for them. When my parents split they shielded me from as much of it as possible, and for this I am extremely grateful.
I'm sorry to hear about the poor situation you have found youself in, it's never nice to find things out like thisI hope you get it sorted buddy but don't go and do anything stupid like hitting the other bloke, you're kids will have to do without a dad then for a couple of years too.
Shoes
I suggest going to Relate or similar. This doesn't have to mean the end of your relationship, but if it is, talking things through with someone to mediate will help greatly with damage reduction. Last I knew, they're at SDVS but see their website: www.relate.org.uk.
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