Love at first Bite closing in September

loveatfirstbite

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There’s no easy way to tell you this, but Love at first Bite Stafford will close on Saturday 21st September 2013.
I can honestly say it’s been the most fun and rewarding job I could ever imagine... until I had a baby. Then running a cake shop became the SECOND most fun and rewarding job I could imagine. I opened this shop over 3 years ago and it’s been such a success! So successful in fact, that I regularly need to work through the night to catch up with the work load. It’s become very difficult balancing work and baby and I had to make a tough decision. I had to be back at work when she was 4 weeks old and it breaks my heart daily leaving her with my husband while I work long hours. I have a chance to break my lease at the shop and took it to spend more time with my little girl, as I'll never get these years back and she'll be a teenager before I know it!
We are honouring any orders we already have for the year, and are still taking orders up until our closing date. We will of course, maintain the highest quality of work right up until the last day and want to go out with a bang! Any concerns email tinasoden@aol.com

To anyone who says the usual negative stuff about a shop shutting; to anyone who calls me a failure... we had a hugely successful cake business. I have been the sole provider for my household for 4 years since my husband became sick. He is getting better now, and is able to work again, and that gives me a chance to see more of Lucy, which I can't pass up on. The only thing I’m afraid of failing in life is being a Mummy. It's my CHOICE to shut the shop, NOT that I had to because of finances (although I'm sure many grumpy people will say that!). Money is just not as important to me as family time. I have honoured every bill, and my staff never have, and never will miss a pay check. I love them dearly and they know it. I fully intend to open a bigger and better shop in a few years when Lucy's at school, so fear not Stafford! We’ll be back!
Any cake decorator will tell you cakes are a notoriously difficult thing to make money from and they require hours and hours of work to turn a profit. (That’s not including the hours I spend at home in the evenings doing paperwork, emails, blogging, research and designing!!) But it’s worth all that work because it’s your hobby and passion. However, once you realise you could be spending that time having cuddles with your little girl, that passion wains slightly. I can’t work through the night like I used to. I can only work 9-5 if I want to see my daughter before work and before bedtime. Before any of you ask... I don't want to pay my staff to run it for me, I’m the type of person that gives 100% to everything, I am a perfectionist, so it’s not an option for me.
I want to apologise to anyone I’m letting down by closing, and end by thanking you lovely lot... customers, facebook fans etc... even if all you’ve done is ‘like’ the odd photo on facebook... you’ve been part of a journey I wouldn’t change for the world and have enjoyed immensely. Be good :D
 

Glam

Mad Cat Woman
I've already posted to you on Facebook. It will be a shame to see your shop close for the foreseeable future, but your little girl needs her mum more. xx
 

littleme

250,000th poster!
I followed you since carpark catchphrase :) Good luck for you and your family, and a happy future together :)
 

Em L

Mental Floss
I hope you don't get any negative comments - I'm sure it'll be sad enough without having to hear rubbish off people who should know better. As you say you can always reopen when she goes to school but you don't ever get those early years back! Enjoy your time with her, and good luck in the future :)
 

loveatfirstbite

Well-Known Forumite
That's why I wrote the bit about negativity - I know what Staffordian's can be like! It's actually something I'm feeling pretty positive about now I've gone public with my decision. There will always be sceptical people but what can you do! Its all lovely stuff so far - making me cry a bit to be honest!
 

andy w

Well-Known Forumite
The problem with artisan trades (people with high skills) is that they struggle to find staff that can match their high standards. This was the same with Terri the hat/fascinater maker who ended up with too much work to do and be in the shop.
Such a shame to see you go, never had cause to use your shop, but enjoyed looking at your window front. All the best for the future.
 

Chann100590

A few posts under my belt
Oh no this is such a shame, we ordered my little girls first birthday cake here, maybe you remember? The princess castle with aleeyah on :) in July 2012 :) I remember you saying you have a little girl and that aleeyah reminds u of her! I also seen you today walking past "game" you looked very busy and in a rush, I love to walk past your shop and look in the window all the time :-D I hope whatever you decide to do in the future makes you happy xx
 

Moby Dick

Well-Known Forumite
What a heart wrenching decision to make but totally applaud you Tina. I am sure in years to come Lucy will be grateful to you for this selfless act. Wish you all the best for a happy and fulfilled life for the 3 of you.
 

wmrcomputers

Stafford PC & laptop repair specialist
Fair play to you Tina, and can totally understand your decision... I really can't see anyone being negative about your decision (certainly not on here), but if anyone does I'm sure they'd get a "verbal slap" from some of us! ;)
I totally applaud your decision. You've given up something you love doing in order to enjoy the best years of your daughters life - nothing at all wrong with that. If anything it shows what a great mum you are!!

No doubt many people will watch for you returning in the future. :)
 

Lunar Scorpion

Anarchy in the UK
I'm so glad you're closing the weekend after my birthday and no earlier! I might have cupcakes this year, 28 is divisible by 4 so that would work out quite well and the cupcakes I had before were divine! Just need to decide on a theme...
 

khhospice

A few posts under my belt
Hi Tina,

We are really sorry to hear about losing your lovely shop in Stafford but totally understand your reasons for doing so. Thank you for all your wonderful support to the Hospice and we look forward to seeing you back soon in a few years time. Best wishes from KHH.
 

Carole

Well-Known Forumite
I dont come on the forum so much as I have been busy lately but I came on today to say thank you so much for the cake that you made for Alex. I had no idea when I picked up the cake on Tues that you were closing down.

As a parent I can totally understand your decision, Alex is now 18 and I dont know where the years have gone.

HE LOVED HIS CAKE....everyone that comes round thinks that you are so clever and talented. I dont know what the cake tastes like and I dont think we ever will as its too perfect to cut into and actually eat. The model of Alex is spot on and the little westie is so so cute.

Thank you so much and very best wishes for the future.
 

loveatfirstbite

Well-Known Forumite
thanks carole! only 3 weeks to go! at the moment most customers coming in are asking for cakes that we can't do and i wish there was an easier way to inform the customers but nobody seems to know we're closing. I'm just telling everyone 'we're opening again soon' it seems to keep them happy. i wanted to throw a bit of a leaving party when we go but I'm not sure how to go about it
 
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