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I thought I'd revive this thread with my sarh problem!
I had a surveyor from sarh visit my home to carry out a survey. He seemed overly friendly but I put it down to him just being a friendly guy ( if not a bit wierd). After spending a good hour and a half at my home And promising me all kinds of repairs he headed for the door , before stopping to ask for my number (apparently for work purposes ) .
Within 5 mins of him leaving he text me saying how lovely it was too meet me and he hoped to see me again soon. I thought this was a bit strange but figured I was probably just being paranoid.
He rang me a few days later to ask if I was home because he needed to come and complete a block survey and he wanted to discuss it with me. I was out at the time so he rearranged to visit me the following week.
The visit was very strange , he told me he was going to put in work orders for new fences , re levelling the concrete outside and drainage. Let's face it, you don't normally get these kind of repairs in a Sarh property! He was overly friendly and kept flirting with me, which made me so uncomfortable . I felt he kept invading my personal space because he kept standing so close to me, it was horrible. He must have been at my house about 2 hrs! After he left he text me again saying how nice it was to see me again and how he will speak to me soon( only this time with kisses).
Over the following weeks he rang me a couple of times about the repairs, he said they had all been reported to the office and I would have the dates very soon etc and how he needed to visit me again soon.
Another few weeks and texts later with added kisses and sleeve , I decided to ring sarh directly to find out what was going on. The surveyor was freaking me out and something just didn't seem right.
To my surprise they didn't have a clue what I was talking about !! I told them what the surveyor had said to me about the repairs and the lady on the phone told me there is no way sarh would be doing any of the work and there was no reports/repairs submitted from the surveyor. There was nothing to even say he had been to my home.
This made me feel sick to be honest.what exactly was he coming to my home and texting and calling me for! All lies?!
I emailed in a complaint about this to sarh because I wanted to make sure this weirdo never comes to my home or contacts me again. I changed my phone number too. I don't understand what this surveyor was up to. Seems like some sexual predator.
I received a letter from sarh today. They clearly didn't take my complaint seriously and assured me they would "Speak to him". No further action .
I can't let this go . I don't know what this man was playing at!he shouldnt be allowed in people's homes
It's up to them to decide to do nothing, if that's what they decide - they are quite capable of "having words" with people without starting any paperwork - some of them are very good at this sort of thing.I did consider police , but there's probably nothing they can do.
Their are good cops and good cops, the metric you choose is everything.It's up to them to decide to do nothing, if that's what they decide - they are quite capable of "having words" with people without starting any paperwork - some of them are very good at this sort of thing.
Even so, if nothing else it will be on record - because, dude, that's sexual harassment you've got going on there, that's really not in any way acceptable.I did consider police , but there's probably nothing they can do.
Without wishing to be a bit-of-a-dick about it, not reporting this would be joining in with the whole under-carpet-sweeping. You really do need to flag this up to someone on the 'outside' of it, and the Police would seem the obvious outside agent.I'm more annoyed that sarh basically swept it under the carpet and aren't willing to do anything. I have even kept some of the texts as proof but they aren't interested
I did consider police , but there's probably nothing they can do. I've contacted sarh again today to tell them how disgusted I am. I told them I want a signed statement stating that the surveyor will not contact or visit me ( work purposes of course ) . Either way if he turns up or contacts me I will call police straight away.
I'm more annoyed that sarh basically swept it under the carpet and aren't willing to do anything. I have even kept some of the texts as proof but they aren't interested
..and, possibly, himself.No ur all completely right! There's a bigger picture. I will speak to police. Not for my sake but for the next people he 'visits'.
..and, possibly, himself.
One day, he may upset somebody with anger-management issues....
Meaning?Doubtful he'd try it on with Glam !....…
You're not a SARH tenant..?Meaning?
I kinda think you're not the type to be trifled with x .....Meaning?
Nope.You're not a SARH tenant..?