gk141054 said:
speak65 said:
Biggest ever possible cuffy to Maple Lodge Nursing home, who upon mum's fall 4 days ago, left a message on home answerphone (which we never listen to), didnt bother trying my mobile, nor any other relative that they have contact numbers for, and dont think it strange that no-one calls them back.
Is it just me that thinks you are being a bit harsh with that comment....? Ok so they could have done better but its hardly their fault you never listen to your answerphone. Why don't you switch it off if you don't use it then they might have tried another number for you.
I can understand you possibly thinking it harsh, but the number they are always told to contact is my mobile. When the GP said it was a potential life threatening situation yesterday, that was the number they called, so they are perfectly aware of it. Surely many working people are more easily contacted on their mobiles, so basic common sense surely would be to try a mobile number if there is no answer on a home one.
What if I had been on holiday for a fortnight or longer?
They have about 6 contact numbers, and to try one with one attempt only is disgusting in my opinion.
Procedure for emergency situation at one organisation I have knowledge of with infants, is to call repeatedly at 10 minute intervals, until contact is made. When asked about their emergency contact procedure , they were not sure if they had one!!! This is Southern Cross, the largest (I believe) care provider in the country!
To have left her 4 days without further medical attention, and without making any further attempts at contact is appalling in my view.
My mother was unattended in the garden, and could have been unconsicous for some time without anyone knowing.
Fortunately it was on their premises, as a few weeks earlier, she was found wandering up the road, outside of their "secure" environment. And some weeks before that found on an impromptu visit by my daughter in the middle of the day in urnine soaked nightwear. And £600 a week is paid for this "care".
Unfortunatley because we self-fund, social services will not get involved.
We are hopefully very soon going to be able to move her to a far better care home, but these places are much in demand and we have been waiting for over a year.