Lunar Scorpion said:
I wasn't just talking about the wheelchair-bound. I actually know of someone with a severe mental illness who would like to work, but can't because this person is only capable of working at certain times of the year and the employers aren't flexible enough to allow this person to do the type of work they could do. There are very few people with disabilities that cannot work at all - but essentially some people are forced not to work because the job market isn't flexible enough for them to have a place within it.
So we are agreed on that then. If yo uhave physical or mental disability that stop s you from working then you get supported by the state. That is exactly what i said. Wheel chair bound, sorry but them guys have to get going and work too. Thats not a barrier to working.
Lunar Scorpion said:
So what you're saying is, that unless you or your parents have enough money you're not entitled to an education - nice! That's one way to completely kill social mobility... Parenthood is a full time job - if it wasn't, then people wouldn't need to pay for childcare while they were at work. Some people have children because they actually want to spend all time bringing them up and that is their perogative - no one has the right to dictate how anyone should raise their children.
OK. Students...when i was a student and all my student friends at the time and presently, none of us got benefits, we got jobs around our academic and placement commitments then ended up with debts that are still being paid off. Oh my parents had nothing to give. And i do mean nothing. Yet i went had a decent education so it has nothing to do with how much money your parents have.
Mothers/parenthood. Yep full time job. And costs a fair bit too. But my point doesnt seem to be clear so let me say this loud and clear...IF YOU WANT TO HAVE KIDS GO AHEAD THATS YOUR CHOICE AND YOU ARE ENTITLED TO IT, BUT YOU MADE THAT CHOICE, I DIDNT MAKE IT FOR YOU SO DONT ASK FOR BENEFITS SO YOU CAN STAY HOME FULL TIME. I WORK FULL TIME, TIME AWAY FROM MY FAMILY, AND HAVE TO PAY TAXES WHGICH FUND YOUR BENEFITS. DONT HAVE KIDS UNLESS YOU ARE GOING TO SUPPORT THEM.
Your right, we dont have the right to tell people how to bring up their children, pity. But why should some people have the right to just have kids then expect everyone else to pay for it. Its one thing to support families through tough times, i am all for that, but its quite another when those families have no intention of wokring and just want to take the lazy way out.
Lunar Scorpion said:
No, I mean receiving a reward from the government for doing work providing the many much needed services (this could be a volunteer allowance that is also designed to cover any out-of-pocket expenses), not payment from their "employer".
No sorry, i am totally against this. When the benefit system is so stretched (and over subscribed which is what sparked off this thread) why oh why oh why should we be looking at giving even more to people? As mentioned previously there are enough people being rewarded by the goverment for doing nothing, lets have them doing something. As you point out, volunteering isnt about gain, its about fulfillment. So out of pocket exspenses, well sorry thats what you sign up for when you do this.
Lunar Scorpion said:
It's not something that I enjoy - some may call me altruistic, but I believe there is no such thing. I just prefer the satisfaction I get from helping people out, doing something worthwhile - and monetary gain is not something that I consider to be worthwhile.
Good for you doing something to help someone else out just for the feel good factor. I am not sure when i gave you the impression i felt my wage was the satisfying thing about working. Far from it. I work because i want a certain standard of living. The satisfaction is saving lives while at work and providing my family with decent food, home and decent standard of life.
Lunar Scorpion said:
You obviously haven't heard about the schemes they have... I disagree with making anyone do anything for the basic means of survival - people have a right to be free to meet their own needs, and denying them that would be manslaughter or gross negligence.
No one is denying people the right to meet thir basic needs. You do that by getting a job. If you dont have one we will support you while you do. If you really cant do we will support you. If you want us to keep you while you do nothing then why should we support you in that? Why shoud someoen have the right to maoney off the state for doing nothing? Why shouldnt a condition of getting benefits be that you do something for it? Where is the incentive to work?
Lunar Scorpion said:
TOUGH CRAP, you chose to work so don't then come asking for someone to support you. Surely it works both ways? People make choices?
Sorry didnt make my point clear...the point i was making is the extra help you mentioned in way of tax credits etc that are available to working people are far below what those on benefits get for having kids.
Lunar Scorpion said:
djstaffs said:
In reply to further posts you mentioned telemarketing, gettong sacked after 2 months and starting at the bottom and that you have done that etc
In previos threads you actually said you got sacked from jobs or left jobs because they werent fun so you didnt put effort in (or words to that effect).
Not quite: at times I did find them fun, other times I found them unbearable. They didn't suit me, and like most people I only do things that I see some point in doing. Earning extra money is not something that motivates me - so the level of reward from other areas (i.e. a certain level of job satisfaction) is key. I have never had that level of job satisfaction in employment, hence why I have spent significantly more time doing voluntary work.
I spent 10years doing jobs i didnt enjoy or like or see the point or feel was worth while or at time were unbearable. Like most people though i stuck it out. I didnt take the option of saying sod this, i will jack it in or get myself the sack because of not working becasue i can get benefits. Not in my work ethic, i stuck it out until i found something else then moved. Which is why there is no gaps in my work history since i left school.
Earning extra money doesnt motivate me either but working to support the standard i desire does.
Get a job then in your time outside of that do your voluntary work, like the rest of us.
Lunar Scorpion said:
djstaffs said:
In other words you are too lazy
Yeah, you've actually lost me there... How many fooking times do I need to point out that I have regularly being doing voluntary work for the last 6 months?! Anyway, carry on...
Voluntary work is something you choose as and when to do...
Lunar Scorpion said:
I take it voluntary work and being at university for two years (I attended every single lecture, bar one or two - same at college doing my A levels) doesn't count as application? Well, since I'm too lazy I suppose I might as well chuck the Open University prospectus in the bin, yeah? And while we're at it, fook the voluntary work I'm still doing - and fook the Open Door placement I've just started at the council (the idea of which is that I am treated exactly like any other employee, except I am not on the payroll). No, I'm so lazy I haven't done anything whatsoever to improve my chances of actually making something of myself, ever. I didn't repeat a year at university because I knew I could do better. In fact, passing my A Levels in Mathematics and Psychology in the first place was just a fluke, in fact I think I just ordered the certificates off the internet! Never mind the fact my GCSE grades are ABCCC (originally a D in English, I had to retake it at college and I never really liked the subject - and if it weren't for the fact that they entered everyone for the Foundation paper, I believe I may have actually got a B to match my coursework, at least one of which was an A if I remember correctly). No, I never fooking work for anything.
Well for f**k sake why didnt you say so sooner. Again a thread turned round to you and your circumstance when actually the focus of the thread didnt apply to you as you obviously are trying to do somehting about your situation. Genuinely good on ya. And in which case happy to support you. From some of the things you have said about your situation i do think you have been lazy and my comments on that remain unchanged. But you obviously are looking to get a job and better yourslef so great stuff and have a skill point too.